aaaarrrrgggggg!
i officially am quite annoyed with angie ("quite annoyed"= extremely pissed).
angie is dylans mom, ie jasons ex.
this thursday, jason called her to make arrangements for the weekend. she says "and i have to talk to you about rebecca, but i don't want to talk now"
i'm freaking out. she is crazy. who knows what is going on.
anywho. apparently dylan has been complaining to anyone who will listen (anyone but me or jason) that i pick on him. he doesn't want to come to our house anymore. this has been going on for months now.
NO ONE is communicating this to jason or me. and very understandably angie is pissed that her little boy is upset. i 100% get it. i am very glad she finally brought it up. i am glad , and respect dylan for telling people he is unhappy. none of this pisses me off.
what pisses me off is that angie is assuming i am doing it on purpose to hurt dylan. she told jason that she thinks i am not a good person, and that i am faking liking dylan. it hasn't gotten to the point where she isn't going to let jason see dylan anymore. but i am SO scared that it's going to get to the point where she is.
i ended up agreeing with jason to not "parent" dylan anymore. ie. he chews with his mouth open, doesn't listen, has toys strewn all over the house, is being too loud, is whining, is refusing to eat his food, whatever. i can't say a thing. i have to bite my tongue, and go tattle to jason. i have to walk on eggshells because angie is going to grill dylan when he goes back home. and who knows what will happen then.
i'm not so worried about what she thinks of me for me, i'm worried about what she thinks of me for dylan and jason. because i know, i'll be out on my ass (i'll put myself out on my ass) so jason can keep seeing dylan.
and meanwhile jason can say NOTHING about her lifestyle, and choices. but that is a whole other story.
and this is going to last the rest of our lives.
angie is dylans mom, ie jasons ex.
this thursday, jason called her to make arrangements for the weekend. she says "and i have to talk to you about rebecca, but i don't want to talk now"
i'm freaking out. she is crazy. who knows what is going on.
anywho. apparently dylan has been complaining to anyone who will listen (anyone but me or jason) that i pick on him. he doesn't want to come to our house anymore. this has been going on for months now.
NO ONE is communicating this to jason or me. and very understandably angie is pissed that her little boy is upset. i 100% get it. i am very glad she finally brought it up. i am glad , and respect dylan for telling people he is unhappy. none of this pisses me off.
what pisses me off is that angie is assuming i am doing it on purpose to hurt dylan. she told jason that she thinks i am not a good person, and that i am faking liking dylan. it hasn't gotten to the point where she isn't going to let jason see dylan anymore. but i am SO scared that it's going to get to the point where she is.
i ended up agreeing with jason to not "parent" dylan anymore. ie. he chews with his mouth open, doesn't listen, has toys strewn all over the house, is being too loud, is whining, is refusing to eat his food, whatever. i can't say a thing. i have to bite my tongue, and go tattle to jason. i have to walk on eggshells because angie is going to grill dylan when he goes back home. and who knows what will happen then.
i'm not so worried about what she thinks of me for me, i'm worried about what she thinks of me for dylan and jason. because i know, i'll be out on my ass (i'll put myself out on my ass) so jason can keep seeing dylan.
and meanwhile jason can say NOTHING about her lifestyle, and choices. but that is a whole other story.
and this is going to last the rest of our lives.
posted by becca at 11:20 AM
1 Comments:
Tricky situation indeed. As I recall, when both my parents remarried the 'steps' kept a 'hands-off' attitude towards me too, and it worked as well as it could, I guess.
Dylan's reaching towards that age(s) when parenting is difficult for everyone, even a family that wasn't betwixt and between.
Hang in there, Girlie - things will work out, they really will... *hug*
Love,
Tan
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