family
i have a new appriciation for my faamily.
jasons family drives me crazy. they are full of guilt trips, and mind games. they take everything the wrong way. they bicker continuously.
when i live with nate and his family, i didn't find a new apprication cause nate has an awesome family too so there really wasn't any difference. but now i don't enjoy spending time with jasons family. this year for christmas we have dylan cause it's our weekend. it looks like we will be staying over night at his parents place christmas eve and spending allchristmas day with them. i REALLY don't want to do that. what i want to do is bring dylan home on the 23rd, have a normal saturday, he'll sleep over the 24th, open our presents and then go over to ma and pa's (jasons parents) have dinner then his mom will pick him up and we will go to my dads for the 26th. now. this means that we miss my dads family christmas. this pisses me off. jason hasn't met my dads family. our plan is to do everyother year his family. i had spoken to jason about having this year be our year for my dads family. but of corse, he didn't talk to his mom, and now her christmas dinner is on christmas day. now the other hitch is that we have dylan and jason doesn't want to travel with him, so it doesn't really matter anyway.
i want to be with jason. but i don't think i can stand to be at his parents for 2.5 days when other family things are going on. and jason of corse hasn't talked to angie yet. so who knows what is going to happen. and i won't be able to have any time for friends either.
i'm starting to hate the holidays.
jasons family drives me crazy. they are full of guilt trips, and mind games. they take everything the wrong way. they bicker continuously.
when i live with nate and his family, i didn't find a new apprication cause nate has an awesome family too so there really wasn't any difference. but now i don't enjoy spending time with jasons family. this year for christmas we have dylan cause it's our weekend. it looks like we will be staying over night at his parents place christmas eve and spending allchristmas day with them. i REALLY don't want to do that. what i want to do is bring dylan home on the 23rd, have a normal saturday, he'll sleep over the 24th, open our presents and then go over to ma and pa's (jasons parents) have dinner then his mom will pick him up and we will go to my dads for the 26th. now. this means that we miss my dads family christmas. this pisses me off. jason hasn't met my dads family. our plan is to do everyother year his family. i had spoken to jason about having this year be our year for my dads family. but of corse, he didn't talk to his mom, and now her christmas dinner is on christmas day. now the other hitch is that we have dylan and jason doesn't want to travel with him, so it doesn't really matter anyway.
i want to be with jason. but i don't think i can stand to be at his parents for 2.5 days when other family things are going on. and jason of corse hasn't talked to angie yet. so who knows what is going to happen. and i won't be able to have any time for friends either.
i'm starting to hate the holidays.
posted by becca at 12:29 PM
5 Comments:
don't be a hater...
isn't it normal that your inlaws drive you crazy?
we have to spend xmas eve in Aurora/RH too, instead of going over to my aunt Janice's. i think we've decided to travel north on xmas day to spend the day with my dad and go to aunt june's for dinner. this year is my mom's year to work, but she's off at 3 in the aft, which is pretty good.
it might get a bit crazy, but at least i don't have to spend 2.5 days with the inlaws, right?
wow. you sound all grown up with grown up problems.
- rain
we decided to do what i suggested, and have dylan here for 2 days and just go to the inlaws for christmas dinner. i guess we really wern't ment to be nate...cause if we had gotten hitched my inlaws wouldn't have driven me crazy!
i feel all grown up erin! i'm not loving it! i wish i were a toys 'r' us kid! well. it's not all bad. dylans wonderful and ll i really want is to spend time ith him and jason and if it means spending lots of time with the inlaws so be it.
Becca:
You SO rawk :)
- Me
Becca:
You SO rawk :)
- Me
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